For Families

Now Available! The Savvy Resident’s Guide:

Everything You Wanted to Know About Your Nursing Home Stay But Were Afraid to Ask

Read more about this large-print book for residents, family members, staff, and students here:

The Savvy Resident’s Guide

For Families: Essentials for Choosing a Nursing Home (and Becoming Part of the Team)


In this one-hour audio download, Dr. El provides essential information for families considering nursing home placement.  This talk with Dale  Carter of Transition Aging Parents is packed with insider information and tips that will transform the experience of nursing home placement for your whole family.  Sharing psychological secrets, Dr. El will help listeners:

  • Choose the nursing home best suited for your family
  • Help your loved one thrive in long-term care
  • Become a member of the treatment team

Instant Download: Only $10.99


Coaching Services

Have a challenging situation at the nursing home?  Dr. El is available for individual coaching/consultation (in person, over the phone or through video chat) on a wide variety of topics for a reasonable fee.

What family members are saying:

“Eleanor offered compassionate, knowing, and tender advice. It was as though she was a sister, friend, psychologist, and nurse wrapped into one nice package helping me and my siblings to navigate these difficult waters of aging parents.”
- Jan G.

“I felt very comforted by your words in asking the questions about assessing the situation in a person.  I was able to take a look at the big picture and the levels of dementia.  Your questions of being safe, agitated, frightened, the mood swings and medications has really helped me to understand all the different levels about mother as well as myself.  As you stated, it’s not just what the person with the dementia, mother, is experiencing but what the caregiver, me, is going through as well.   As it stands now mother is happy and I am coping with everything very well.  I can’t thank you enough for all your words and assistance with this situation.”
- Stephen Gamble