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The time spent in nursing homes can be one of growth, emotional healing, and creativity for residents, staff, and family members.  If you’re wondering how to get there from here, please look through this site and read my blog, where you’ll find answers that will allow you to create positive change instantly, whether you’re a CEO, a CNA, or seeing a loved one in long-term care.

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"My goal is to make nursing homes a place I'd want to live when it's my turn, using my training as a psychologist."

Recent Blog Posts

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Is your workplace psychologically healthy? (McKnight’s LTC News)

Dr. El - May 17, 2013 - Business Strategies, Common Nursing Home Problems and How Psychologists Can Solve Them, Customer service, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Motivating staff, Something Good About Nursing Homes

Here’s my latest article at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News: Is Your Workplace Psychologically Healthy? In long-term care we spend a lot of time focused on the physical health of those in our care. With increased emphasis on culture change and the update to the MDS (and hopefully as a result of this column), we’ve begun [...]

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Absenteeism and turnover in LTC? Death anxiety could be the cause (McKnight’s LTC News)

Dr. El - May 3, 2013 - Business Strategies, Common Nursing Home Problems and How Psychologists Can Solve Them, Communication, End of life, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Motivating staff, Psychology Research Translated

Here’s my latest article at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News: Absenteeism and turnover in LTC? Death anxiety could be the cause I started working in long-term care when I was in my early 30s and I was shocked at first when the residents died. I was used to falling in love with my patients — I [...]

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The Boston Marathon explosions: Turn off the dayroom TV (McKnight’s LTC News)

Dr. El - April 17, 2013 - Dementia, Depression/Mental illness/Substance Abuse, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Resident care

Here’s my latest column at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News: The Boston Marathon explosions: Turn off the dayroom TV I was hoping not to have occasion to write another column about tragedy so soon, but the terrible events at the Boston Marathon have prompted another look at how we deal within our facilities with distressing news. [...]

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Your best competitive advantage? A solid social work department (McKnight’s LTC News)

Dr. El - April 8, 2013 - Business Strategies, Communication, Customer service, Depression/Mental illness/Substance Abuse, Engaging with families, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Resident care

Here’s my latest column at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News: Your best competitive advantage? A solid social work department I have great respect for those who attend to the often complicated physical needs of our long-term care residents, but if your facility doesn’t have a solid social service department, it isn’t as good as it could [...]

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The Savvy Resident’s Guide reviewed by the Happy Dietitian

Dr. El - April 7, 2013 - Savvy Guide reviews

I’m pleased to share this review of The Savvy Resident’s Guide by the Happy Dietitian: A foodie at heart with a passion for nutrition.  Thank you, Wendy! Medical Staff, Stop With the Candy Crush and Read This Book Don’t let the cover and title fool you, this book isn’t just for residents’ of nursing homes. The [...]

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Dr. El speaks with The Practice Institute, Tuesday 4/9 @1pm ET

Dr. El - April 3, 2013 - Books/media of note, Role of psychologists, Talks/Radio shows

I was on the plane home from the American Psychological Association conference last August when I noticed that the man across from me had the same APA conference tote I was carrying.  My friendly inquiry led to a very pleasant 3-hour conversation on the flight with psychologist Dr. Jeffrey Zimmerman of The Practice Institute.  The [...]

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Small changes have big impact on LTC residents’ sense of control, autonomy (LTL mag online)

Dr. El - March 28, 2013 - Business Strategies, Customer service, Long-Term Living Magazine, Resident care

Here’s my latest article in Long-Term Living Magazine online: Small changes have big impact on LTC residents’ sense of control, autonomy When the psychologist arrived at Mrs. Winters’ room, she found her distraught and disheveled. “Last time you saw me I was stuck by that dresser in the corner and couldn’t get out. This time [...]

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Secrets to making your environment emotionally healing: McKnight’s LTC News

Dr. El - March 26, 2013 - Business Strategies, Customer service, Dementia, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Resident care

Here’s my latest column at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News: Secrets to making your environment ‘emotionally healing’ Back when I worked in psych, one of our most effective tools to improve mental health was maintaining a healing emotional environment, or therapeutic milieu. That’s why I was shocked when I first entered long-term care. I couldn’t believe [...]

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McKnight’s Online Expo, FREE, March 20th and 21st

Dr. El - March 18, 2013 - Business Strategies, Technology

Once again, McKnight’s will host its annual online expo, which is a chance to attend a conference without leaving your desk.  Register for the conference in advance, and then log in to hear the talks, visit the vendors, and chat with the reps and attendees.  This year’s topics are: PAYMENT An MDS 3.0 Update March [...]

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The World According to Dr. El debuts on McKnight’s LTC News

Dr. El - March 12, 2013 - Common Nursing Home Problems and How Psychologists Can Solve Them, Depression/Mental illness/Substance Abuse, McKnight's Long-Term Care News, Resident care, Role of psychologists

I’m very pleased to announce the debut of my new column at McKnight’s Long-Term Care News.  The World According to Dr. El is a twice monthly column that will address mental health issues in LTC. Please visit and “Like” the page on McKnight’s to show your support for addressing the mental health concerns of all [...]

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